
While I’m not typically much of a video game person, I was immediately intrigued by Gone Home because of it’s curious and mysterious feel at the beginning. As I explored the house, I started to piece together the lives of Katie’s family members and when I did, I realized that the point of this game isn’t in solving the mystery itself, it’s in the story that unfolds. Gone Home gives us deeper look at what feminist and queer politics, like the Riot Grrrl movement, looked like in the 1990s.
The Riot Grrrl movement was a wave of feminism with an essence of punk-rock. In Gone Home, we can get a feel of the riot grrl essence through Katie’s sister, Samantha. She had “zine” style posters in her room and listened to female punk rock music. In the Riot Grrrl Manifesto by Kathleen Hanna, we learn that this movement was unapologetically by women and for women, that is, women who wanted to make a stand against the status quo. Hanna wrote about these status quos by saying that they are “meant to keep us simply dreaming instead of becoming our dreams” (Hanna, 1991). Hanna and other riot grrrl participants, led by example in inspiring girls to follow their passions, be unafraid to take up space, and to use their voice. In Transformation of Silence into Language, Audre Lorde backed this message when she wrote, “And where the words of women are crying to be heard, we must each of us recognize our responsibility to seek those words out, to read them and share them and examine them in their pertinence to our lives” (p.43). Lorde is telling us that we will never overcome those status quos and social norms that keep girls in an inferior position until we fully realize our responsibility in the fight and take action. Gone Home fights against the overly common “damsel in distress” troupe that Anita Sarkeesian discussed on her youtube channel. Instead of the typical male lead, we played from the perspective of Katie and the game centered around female-narratives. Even though I don’t really play video games, it was really refreshing to see a change from the typical plot of men being the hero’s and saving the helpless females.


In the Riot Grrl Manifesto, Kathleen Hanna expressed that riot grrrls are “unwilling to falter under claims that we are reactionary ‘reverse sexists'” (Hanna, 1991). In other words, this movement rejects the idea that all feminist hate men or that feminist ideas are anti-male. This harmful and inaccurate assumption has commonly been made to weaken the impact of feminist movements and to skew the real messages they are sharing. For example, in Feminism is for Everyone by Audre Lorde, the author discusses how the real “enemy” of feminist movements is sexism, not men. She wrote, “the movement is not about being anti-male. It makes it clear that the problem is sexism. And that clarity helps us remember that all of us, female and male, have been socialized from birth on to accept sexist thought and action” (p. viii). Hanna and Lorde both share how society has shaped gender in a way that has aligned women with inferiority and encourage us to abandon patriarchal ways of thinking in order to foster equality and empowerment for all.
Research Essay Ideas:
For my research essay, I am interested in writing about how gender shapes childhood development. Or more specifically, the initial agents of gender socialization: family and school. I think that this would be a good topics for my essay because this course has already given us a glimpse what of gender socialization looks like in the United States and I think it will be interesting to explore the effects it has on individuals and our society at large. For my cultural artifact, I could use a children’s book that reflects how children in the U.S learn about gender.
Another topic that seems interesting to me is how gender shapes the criminal justice system. I think this would be a good topic for this essay because it would involve many themes and issues that we have covered in this course like intersectionality and toxic masculinity. For my cultural artifact, I could use the movie “Crash”.

Something that cheers me up when I am stressed:
Listening to the psychobabble podcast! I watched youtube a lot when I was in middle school & one of the hosts of this show had a pretty big channel so I started listening in like 2014 and never stopped lol. It’s light-hearted and really funny (to me) so it’s a great way to take a break from whatever is bringing me down.